Certain terms are simply not in your vernacular when you’re married. In 2015, I called my single friend Debbi and said, this guy texted asking if I wanted to Netflix and chill tonight. Is there some meaning behind this that I don’t know about? Is Netflixing and chilling a thing?

Are those relationship red flags flapping away? Don’t ignore them a minute longer. Know your worth and find the courage you need to put yourself first.